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The Classic Pamela Positive: Better To Make a Few Mistakes Being Natural

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\”Better to make a few mistakes being natural than to do everything out of a feeling of worry.\”


The Common Sense Book of Baby and Child Care, Dr. Benjamin Spock, 1946





It\’s better to make a few mistakes being natural.   It\’s important to be who we are in a natural, real way.  If we get everything right, and are absolutely perfect, but it\’s done with anxiety…. then it actually isn\’t right, is it?


What we do needs to be done with care, love, calm.  With joy and sincerity…and since Dr. Benjamin Spock was a famous leader in parenting in the 40s, I\’ll take his advice not only for parenting, but also for management.  And for our communications, how we live our lives, how we treat others…




Dr. Spock was an influential writer on childrearing, who advocated for increased flexibility and affection in the treatment of infants and children. He was a pediatrician and his book entitled Baby and Childcare is one of the best selling books in history. Aside from that work, he also published 12 other books. He was an activist, involved in the anti-war movements in the 1960s and 1970s. While at Yale University, he became an Olympic gold medalist in rowing. He married Jane Cheney and they had two children together.